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 I've been noticing a lot of things lately that I hadn't paid attention to for a long time. One of them is respect. Or rather, how we use it in everyday life. Or not. 

Many entries on this blog have been devoted to the fact that we - humans - are moving further and further away from each other. 

What is respect? According to the PWN dictionary it is "related to kindness, the attitude of acceptance of other people's achievements, aspirations and views, and reverence for what is great in them." 

An attitude related to kindness... 

Are we kind to others? Do we respect? 

I think that in many cases we cannot be kind or express our respect for other people. 

Meanwhile, so little is needed to express it. Kindness can make a difference. He can light up the dense darkness. It's like giving a hand. 

I do not know why it is like that. I can't define what influences the fact that even the smallest gesture of kindness is considered a sign of weakness. I don't want to throw accusations at the media again. I feel that when I do this, I take away a part of my freedom and self-determination. This is because I allow something I have control on, to control me. My control is the right to choose. I choose to watch this or that show. I decide whether I like this or that content. And from these likes of mine, the world will reveal itself. The way I like him. And there will be a snowball effect over which I will lose control.

 Maybe for these reasons it is better to spend a little more time to find valuable programs or like content that will lighten the darkness. To make the snowball not scary, but to make us excitedly wait where it will take us. 

Is it worth respecting another human being? 

Is it worth respecting yourself? The answer suggests itself. 

Is it worth being kind to another human being? 

Is it worth being kind to yourself? The answer suggests itself. 

Kindness and respect are missing because we have a problem with that. We have a problem with showing positive feelings to another human being. We close ourselves for fear that by opening ourselves up we will become vulnerable. And that's how we play hide and seek every day. We hide our true face behind a facade built over the years. A facade that is difficult to dismantle over time. 

Let's drop our facades. 

Today is real and unique, yesterday was already and tomorrow is uncertain and shapeless. 

Today is the moment when you are. 

There are such magical doors that will help you get to yourself. They are in every home. 

Look in the mirror - it's YOU. 

Drop your profiles and be who you can be best, Be yourself! 

Be respectful and kind. Give me your hand. 

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